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11/05/2009

LOVE THY SELF...LOVE THY NEIGHBOR!!!

I remember years ago when aol was king ..and IMing was the hottest thing going on the internet. I met a real cool young lady who was using her niece's picture as her profile pic. About a year later we connected and she wasn't as bad looking as i imagined or she made it out to be...but her compulsive lack of confidence and self esteem pushed me away long before we met up. She spent too much time questioning everything instead of just accepting self dislikes most of us have. At times we are our own worse critics... Now..
today..you still have the same issue at hand...
Recognize how a lot of folks take pictures from the neck up ?????
They have 23 photos posted and they're all from the neck up.....just from different sides of their face ? ..Well ..i know it has a lot to do with self esteem. Some folks are simply dissatisfied with their shape ..whether it's aging, laziness, ailments or having children. Some folks are even dissatisfied with their look...but if these folks plan on getting a new start on life, new friends, new exciting activities, leaving the negative behind..it has to start with self in the heart, mind and soul. Personally i know this world wouldn't be the same without big people..  plus sizes...thickness..whatever you prefer to label it
Love thy self !!! ... God is the ONLY perfect...  He gave us all flaws and quirks to live with probably to keep us a lil humble... I love to see folks out feeling good and enjoying life..but i laugh at women who think they're too good for me. One of their eyes and feet is bigger than the other just like the rest of us so...
on that note loved ones...Love yaself and appreciate those who love you for you...and live! ..why???
PEOPLE GON TALK ABOUT YOU...WHETHER YOU DOING GOOD OR BAD....get @ me loved 1's...P